How can we embrace diversity and increase inclusion?

Nowadays, diversity and inclusion are important topics as they rightly should be. Companies who want to be successful need to be as diverse as possible. Diverse teams and organizations achieve better performance because they are able to come up with different perspectives, ideas and solutions  (as highlighted in an article from hcamag).


In the world we are currently living in, we now deal and communicate with people from other countries, cultures, backgrounds, ages, etc. It is not always easy to interact with everyone. Some situations can be challenging. However, they are also very rewarding. 


I’m a huge fan of diversity and inclusion, whether we talk about people from different backgrounds, cultures, races, nationalities, languages, religion, age, gender, sexual preference, marital status, etc. 


To me, appreciating diversity and inclusion mean recognizing differences between people and acknowledging that these differences are actually an asset. We should never discriminate but embrace diversity. 


How to embrace diversity? What can we do as individuals to be more inclusive? I had already written a blog about this a few months ago, but would like to expand a bit more…


👉🏽 Be open minded

Never assume you know everything or that you have the answer to a question. Don’t generalize or believe in stereotypes. Be open to all suggestions, ideas, perspective or feedback. 

It’s easy to say ‘[Insert gender] always say this’ or ‘[Insert nationality] people always do that’. But remember that everybody is different and that even if a certain gender, nationality, profession etc. often share some common traits, there are exceptions everywhere.


👉🏽 Respect everybody

In personal or professional relationships, there will always be a time where you will disagree. And it is ok to disagree with someone, as long as you do it respectfully.. You may not agree with what your counterpart is saying but you always have to respect him/her. Consider his/her feelings, ideas, wishes or rights. 


👉🏽 Accept everyone for who they are

Everybody is different. We were all born in different circumstances, we all have different friends, different interests, different backgrounds etc. We have not chosen where we were born, nor the color of our skin or eyes. Everybody is unique and has something to offer.


👉🏽 Do not judge

Even if something may sound weird at first, let the person explain why he/she said something. You do not know what you do not know. It’s easy to provide judgement. It’s more difficult to listen and try to understand others. Also, do not judge quickly: someone who may be struggling with taking a test during training can become one of your best employees in the future.

👉🏽 Stay curious / Be willing to learn

Ask questions. Listen. Try to understand where the person is coming from, try to put yourself in his/her shoes. Be willing to learn. The more you know, the more you’ll realize that you actually know nothing, and that there is so much to learn in this world. People from different countries or cultures view things differently. Because of their history, backgrounds, circumstances, etc. they bring valuable input, especially if you implement a product or a service globally.


I believe that we all have something to offer and that we all have something to learn from each other. Someone older has a wealth of experience while someone younger will bring new ideas. A person from another country will provide other insights you may not have thought of. Someone with a ‘different-ability’ will make you think of something you did not even imagine. 

I always say ‘Together we are stronger’. 💪🏻💪🏽💪🏿

Diversity and inclusion are key. They make us stronger, they make us better. 


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Diversity and inclusion: sexual orientation

Diversity and inclusion


When we talk about it, we often think about: 


Men and women


Younger and older generations


People from different colors, cultures, countries or religion…


There is however another type of diversity: 


Sexual orientation


Listen to the powerful speech Luxembourg’s Prime Minister, Xavier Bettel, did a few days ago at the United Nations…


People should not judge, but accept differences…


Source: MSN / NBC News


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True global leaders embrace diversity and include everybody

True global leaders embrace diversity and include everybody. They never assume they already have all the answers. 

Global leaders keep and open mind. They value diversity and include everybody.


They know that having a diverse team can be challenging. However, they accept and respect everyone. No matter where they come from, their nationality, religion, sex, age, background, ability/differentability, etc.


In addition, global leaders know that everyone has something to offer.  They ask for feedback and ensure that EVERYBODY is included in the process. They know that everyone can offer a different perspective, provide different ideas and strengthen the team.


Finally, great leaders know that the big ideas and solutions come from the most diverse teams.

They know that diversity AND inclusion are key! They simply embrace them.


As a conclusion, I want to finish with one of my favorite quotes from Verna Myers.

Diversity is being invited to the party; inclusion is being asked to dance.”

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Animals and diversity…

They are all different

And yet, they are all friends…

If they all can get along with each other

Why can’t we???

[French version / version francaise]

Ils sont tous différents

Et pourtant, ils sont tous amis…

S’ils s’entendent tous les uns avec les autres.

Pourquoi nous, ne peut-on pas le faire ?

Source video: The Sound Project – Youtube vlvcoach diversity inclusion animals


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How to embrace diversity

Working in an international environment is usually very challenging . You not only deal with many different people from different countries, but also different personalities, opinions, cultures… However, working with different types of people is also very rewarding.

I’m a huge fan of diversity. Whether it’s about people from different backgrounds, cultures, races, nationalities, languages, religion, age, sexual preference, etc., I love and need diversity.

Appreciating diversity means recognizing differences between people. It means acknowledging that these differences are actually an asset. We should never discriminate but embrace diversity. 

What you can do as an individual

Many organizations have programs in place to improve diversity and inclusion. But as an individual, there are a few things you can do as well…

So, what can you do to embrace diversity?

 Be open minded

Respect everybody. Accept everyone for who they are. Do not judge. Having people with different ages for instance means different experiences and different views of seeing things. Be open to all suggestions.

  Stay curious

Don’t always believe stereotypes. Listen, ask questions, try to understand. Having a team with different expertise areas, backgrounds and/or languages will provide specific insights that you may not have thought of.

 Be willing to learn

You don’t know what you don’t know. People from different countries or cultures view things differently. They bring valuable input, especially if you implement a product or a service globally. 

Therefore, next time you have to set up a new team or manage a team, try to make it as diverse as possible. It will really help your organization.

This post was also posted on Linkedin.

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Relax and recharge once in a while!

For 10 days, I took a break from social media to relax and recharge my batteries. This explains why I have not been much on internet lately. I needed to forget everything, focus on something else and re-energize.

And what better way to do this than attending the biggest Salsa/Bachata Festival of the world in Croatia in Rovinj (also refered to as the Summer Sensual Days and Croatian Summer Salsa Festival)! 💃🏽

I love dancing salsa (and bachata) 😊

Dancing is one of my passions.

It is my workout, my emotional and physical stress relief.

It also allows me to connect with people in a different way. One more reason why I love so much dancing salsa is the diversity of people I meet.

During 10 days, I danced days and nights with people from all over the world: China, South Africa, Serbia, Norway, Sweden, Poland, UK, US, Canada, Mexico, Peru, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany, Italy, New Zealand, India, Suriname, etc.

We all had one common language and one shared passion: dancing. It is truly a universal language.

Salsa in Rovinj

I’m now back all refreshed and ready to tackle the second half of 2019 😉

My advice to you all: Do not forget to take a break once in a while to relax and recharge your batteries!

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Yesterday evening I attended a networking event organized by the AMCHAM Luxembourg (American Chamber of Commerce). The main topic was digitalization.

As a small country, Luxembourg has been implementing different initiatives to attract companies and talent. Luxembourg has been trying to be at the forefront as one of  the most digitalized countries in Europe, if not in the world.


During this event, there were two speakers. The first was Marc Hansen, the Luxembourgish Minister of digitalization. The second speaker was  David Goldsmith, consultant, inventor, advisor, speaker, serial entrepreneur, and author. As a coincidence, I had seen David two days before at the TedXLuxembourg event, where he had been delivering a presentation as well.  I had really enjoyed his speech then, but was even more impressed yesterday.

During this event, David delivered an amazing presentation on digitalization. He provided us with an overview of the current situation (not only in Luxembourg but also in the world) and gave us some nice perspectives/food for thoughts…


Many lessons could be drawn from his presentation but one stood out to me, one which is dear to my heart: diversity. 


Main takeaway on digitalization and diversity

If an organization, a company, a city or a country wants to be successful, it needs to be diverse and include people from different backgrounds.

They should never assume they already have all the answers.


For this reason, they need to ask for feedback and ensure that EVERYBODY is included in the process:

✅ Men and women

✅ Young children till retired people

✅ Luxembourgers and foreigners/expatriates

✅ People from different countries, cultures, religion

✅ People with different backgrounds, education, jobs, languages, sexual orientation, etc.

✅ Abled and differently-abled people

It’s only when everyone’s point of view is taken into account that big ideas will be born. Then, solutions will be all encompassing, bringing greater benefits to all people and the businesses that spearhead those solutions.


I’ve said it before and will re-say it again:

⭐️⭐️⭐️ DIVERSITY IS KEY ⭐️⭐️⭐️


#vlvcoach #digitalization #leadership #Luxembourg #diversity #inclusion

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Diversity… I 💜 it, I live it and I need it! 😊

I grew up in a small town in Northern France with only French white people, most of them catholics. All my family was living in Northern France, and we were going on holiday in France. There was nothing a priori that was pushing me towards diversity.

When I was approximately 9 years old, I asked my mom to teach me English. From a young age, I have always wanted to learn a new language to be able to communicate with other people. I asked her because I did not want to wait 2 more years to learn English at school. I was apparently attracted to ‘something else’ at a young age, not sure where that came from…

When I was 18 and I went studying, I started to have foreign friends. At the end of my studies I then left to go to Germany for a training period. After 3 months, I was offered a job. I accepted and never looked back. This was the beginning of my life as an expatriate.

Since then, diversity has been a part of me.

My husband is from Suriname; my brother lives in the UK.

Even before I joined Linkedin, I’ve had friends from all over the world.

Some of my best friends are gay.

I have always managed teams with people from different countries.

When I was working in a bank in Amsterdam, I was one of the youngest, one of the only foreigners & one of the only women.

I cannot imagine my life without diversity.

⭐️ We all have more things in common than differences.

⭐️ Everybody has something to offer, to teach others.

⭐️ And we all have something to learn.

I keep saying it:

Together, we are stronger 💪🏻💪🏽💪🏿

I would not be the person I am today if I hadn’t embraced diversity.

Diversity… I 💜 it, I live it and I need it! 😊

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World Day for Cultural Diversity, for Dialogue and Development.

Today, 21st May, is World Day for Cultural Diversity, for Dialogue and Development.

to show how diversity can be embraced, I wanted to post this picture as a demonstration…

This picture was taken the 1st time I went to work in India. I had been hired to set up a team in India and my first trip brought me to Chennai, where I met my team members.

Because I did not know if I would come back, I decided to stay over for the weekend. I wanted to learn more about the country,. My colleagues were kind enough to show me around and bring me to places I probably would not have seen on my own. 

Since I was in India, I wanted to ‘fit in’. I wanted to show that I was embracing the culture. I therefore decided to dress with Indian clothes.

My female colleague wanted to make me feel comfortable in India and decided to wear Western clothes. When we saw each other, we laughed. We thought ‘great minds think alike’. This allowed us to appreciate and respect each other even more.

Not everything is what it seems…

The strangest thing happened afterwards when we were visiting places. Some Indian people were praising me for wearing Indian clothes while they were blaming my Indian colleague for wearing western clothes!

I was surprised by both types of comments. But there are 2 lessons here to take:

– By embracing diversity, we not only learn about people from other backgrounds, nationalities or cultures. We also gain wonderful experiences that open our minds even more.

– Perception can be deceiving. We should never judge people by the way they look or by why they do certain things. There’s always a reason behind it…

This article was published on Linkedin.

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Diversity and Inclusion go together

Two weeks ago, I had a very interesting discussion with one of my connections about diversity and inclusion.

I came across this article and one sentence stood out, one that my connection also mentioned:  “diversity won’t do a workplace much good if it doesn’t go hand in hand with inclusiveness”.

Verna Myers said: “diversity is being invited to the party, inclusion is being invited to dance”.

What are your thoughts on this?

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